Ernest Hemingway once said, “When people talk, listen completely. Most people never listen.”

It often seems today that making oneself heard far outweighs the ever-so-valuable concept of hearing all the sides. It’s easy to jump to conclusions, or to let our own feelings, perspectives and emotions blind us before an idea has the chance to get out of the gates.

That’s why the Kingston Chamber of Commerce should be commended.

On Feb. 19 the group is holding an information session about three proposed developments in the Kingston area. A chance to learn about these proposals and to ask thoughtful questions.

A chance to give a chance.

Like it or leave it, development is inevitable in a world where populations are growing. Nobody likes change and nobody likes the prospect of losing a view, a house value or a way of life. But in a world where development is coming, a good way to make sure it fits into the will and wishes of a community may just be to open our ears before our mouths. Hear the story from the source, not rumors from down the block, then decide to support or oppose it.

Who knows, you just might learn something.